The backyard
taught me the principle of barter economics. I was introduced to this concept
when I was around six years old. Dad did not like to fish but he loved to eat them.
At the same time, he knew fishermen who loved to go out to Clayton Lake and
spend the day catching their limit, but they didn’t like to clean nor eat their
catch. To these fishermen the belief was that the best bait was earthworms and
unless you had a worm source, they were a pain to get. That is, of course,
where the Sharp Worm Farm came into play. Dad built a box complete with a retractable
lid. He filled it halfway with very fertile loose soil and some seed worms. My
job was to take the coffee grounds out there each morning to help the composting
process along. As it turns out, worms are better than rabbits when it comes to
reproduction. Since there are no male or female worms they can mate with just
any worm who happens to be crawling by. It didn’t take long for the word to spread
that we had worms that we would trade for fish. Consequently, our freezer was
full of trout and catfish and our worms had a happy home for at least awhile. Fortunately
for me, Dad cleaned all the fish. Soon the production of the worms exceeded the
trading volume, so I would put worms in pint paper containers and take them to
Isaacs Hardware Store that would sell them on consignment. This put some extra
change in the pocket and sparked my love of the world of business.
By the time I was ten I felt a tremendous need to
expand my business interests. Since the high school was only a block away from our
home, all of the school owned ground around the high school was within walking
distance of our house. To keep the growth down, the school would hire someone
to come in a few times in the summer to basically mow the vacant lots with a
tractor pulled mower. Frankly, it didn’t look much better after the mowing
simply because of the method used. Seeing the need for a better way, I finally
convinced my father to get me an appointment with the Superintendent of the schools,
so I could offer my services. In early May of 1960 at the age of ten I met with
Don R. Wood and we reached an agreement that I would mow the high school vacant
lots twice a month during the summer months in exchange for $70 per month. In
today’s dollars that would amount to over $550 per month. I went down to Isaacs
Hardware and they agreed to finance a lawn mower to be paid for over the
summer. This arrangement with the school continued until I was old enough to
get a driver’s license. Since the school work took approximately one week to
complete, I was able to mow several little old lady’s lawns during the off
weeks. Did all work and no play make Tommy a dull boy? I think not!
Monday, March 26, 2018
Monday, March 19, 2018
Moving on up to the North Building for more Life Lessons
Fourth
grade: “I am free at last!” My sister has moved on to Junior High so I can walk
uphill to school without her feeling obligated to tell me how to do it! Likewise,
I will have to be completely responsible for my coat, gloves and galoshes. For
my friends in the latest generation, galoshes were rubber boats that you put
over your shoes so that you could walk through blizzard like weather conditions
and we liked it. Of course, the lessons of life continued to unfold. One lesson
is that you can make anything scary if you give your mind enough freedom. After
leaving the house in the morning I would cut over to Oak street so that I could
avoid walking through the high school grounds. About four blocks from my house
was what we referred to as the Peyton mansion. While the style of the home was
unique within itself, the original owners had molded concrete into what
appeared to be petrified wood that was intertwined around the property. On the
top floor of the property one could see what looked like a look out post. Stories
would swirl and magnify themselves about the mansion. My pace would always
quicken when I passed the property. Once I made it to the school grounds spirits
were usually high and in the fourth grade the deeper matters of world affairs were
left to the outside word. We were very honored to have a member of our class
who was without a doubt the fastest runner in the world. I will save her the embarrassment,
but she could run faster than a BB. I know for a fact that she did allow
herself to slow down because years later she permitted a boy with a fast
Mustang to catch her and I double dated with them on one of my rare dates in
high school. For the most part as 4th graders we had moved away from
the big slide and merry go round but on occasion we would lose ourselves on the
swings as we soared to greater heights and then bailing out to return to earth.
The big event that still weighs on my mind from that period of time was the
fact that I made a B in spelling. I really thought I had it down. You know, i before
e except after c and the other rules that had been formulated over the
centuries of literary composition. To others my grade would be a blessing but,
in my mind, it created a lifetime of doubt and the need for auto correct.
Fifth
grade: “All Politics is Local”. These were confusing times for a ten-year-old.
Earlier in 1960, a U2 spy plane had been shot down over Russia and tensions
between the two great powers grew each day. As kids we would hear estimates of
how many times the world could be destroyed during an attack by the Soviet
Union. While it was impossible to imagine the devastation of that type of war,
awareness of the danger was brought to small town America. Dad was the Civil
Defense Director for Clayton and he conducted surveys of buildings in the area
to try to determine the best possible shelters for the community. Strangely
enough our house, due to the two-foot-thick adobe walls and it’s lead roof, was
deemed one of the safest places in the area. Since the likelihood of a direct
attack was remote, the presence of the weather station at the airport gave Dad
a way to calculate time windows for potential fallout. Yes, we did talk about
things like this and my imagination contributed to my concern.
In
other ways 1960 was a pivotal year for me. This was the first Presidential
election that I really remember. Vice President Nixon was running as the
Republican nominee and Senator Kennedy represented the Democrats. Politics had always
been a part of our family life. We were Democrats and it was not unusual to
attend a party pot luck supper at the airport. The candidates from all across
the state would descend on Clayton and rub elbows with the locals. Dad always
told us that he had only voted a straight party ticket one time in his life and
that was in 1932. Otherwise, he tried to vote for the candidate rather than the
party. Just as in the nation the Presidential race was extremely close in New
Mexico. While Union and Bernalillo (Albuquerque) Counties went to Nixon, the
state was won by Kennedy. I learned several valuable political lessons that
year. First, if you want to know how the parents feel about a candidate, ask
their children. The children will parrot almost word for word what they heard
at home. Second, political opinions are rarely based on real issues but rather
on emotions. To demonstrate this point, I remember several fights broke out on
the playground over who would win the election. Third, a stump speech from one
candidate sounds a lot like a stump speech from another. Fourth, in a primary you
can say just about anything you want about the opposition but when the primary
is over you become the best of friends. For example, one day I could accuse you
of being a cannibal but at the end of the week and after I had won, we would
both agree that you were really just eating your hat.
Sixth
grade: “Words are more powerful than swords”. In the sixth grade I actually had
a teacher who was not a woman. That certainly thru charm and flattery out the
window. After being one step behind the Soviet Union in the space race the United
States successfully sent Alan Shephard into space. This just fueled my infatuation
with rockets. Initially I sent compressed air missiles into the sky followed by
solid fuel Estes rockets and then I built my own using vinegar and baking soda
to create the thrust necessary to leave the confines of this earthly plane. Meanwhile
back in school I was presented with a tremendous learning lesson. It was the
policy in our classroom, that if you made less than a 60 on any exam you were
punished with a pop from a ruler for every point less than the minimum
acceptable grade. God had blessed me with the ability to stay above that mark
but we had one kid in our class who just couldn’t make it. Consequently, after every
exam you knew what was going to happen next. This really bothered me to the
point that I felt a need to take a stand against what I considered an
injustice. For several days I worked on a speech that outlined my position. I
did not tell the teacher the reason nor the subject, but I asked if I could
make a speech to the class. He said that I could have the floor that afternoon.
Needless to say, I was a bundle of nerves by the time the afternoon rolled
around. It was a rather short speech, but I stated that I felt that any punishment
for a bad grade was simply wrong and that should never be used as a measure of
a persons worth. I acknowledged that it certainly wasn’t my decision whether
the practice continued but that if the teacher felt a need to pop someone for a
bad grade that I would offer my posterior as a substitute. The speech was over,
and you could have heard a pin drop. After what seemed like an eternity the
class resumed. At the end of the day the teacher asked me to stay. I really
didn’t know what was going to happen, but he was quick and to the point. He
said that he had really thought about what I had said and that he believed that
I was right. The practice stopped, and I believe it marked a turning point in
my life. I learned that the power of words can be astronomical, and that admitting
fault can end up being a virtue. My respect for my 6th grade teacher
continues today.
Friday, March 9, 2018
Life Lessons from Lower Grade School
Perhaps
the first but not the most important lesson that I learned in grade school was
that each teacher had one of three first names: Mr., Mrs., or Miss. Mr. was easy
enough but the other two could be a little confusing. The most important lesson
was that my sister was going to be a hard act to follow. To provide a sense of
order in this epistle, I will break the lessons down by the grade at Central
Ward School.
First
Grade: “Never day dream when you are taking a test”. Early on in the year our
teacher gave us a test that contained two parts. The test was easy enough and I
quickly went through the first section. Suddenly my mind took me outside to get
on the worlds tallest slide and begin the exciting ride down as you could hear
the metal in the slide moan and groan as you traveled with increasing speed
towards earth. Needless to say, the time for the test was up before I finished
my own recess. Since we lived in a small town where everybody knew everybody my
teacher called my mother and said that this was performance was so unlike Tommy’s
usual work but since she felt so bad about giving me a F perhaps I could retake
the test during the next recess. That seemed more than reasonable to me so the
next day I stayed in during the recess period ready to take the exam. This time
to ensure that I completed the test, I started with the second part first. Unfortunately,
our classroom had big windows that looked out on the playground and I could see
all of my friends having a wonderful time. Again, my mind played tricks on me
and as soon as the recess was over the teacher collected my test before I had a
chance to finish. This time she called my Dad at the power plant where he was
the City Engineer. The recess retake was again offered but she said that she
hoped that Dad would find some way for Tommy to keep his mind focused. Since
Dad always felt a need to explain why he was going to spank me, the speech was
rather short this time when he told me to never day dream when taking a test. Contrary
to a popular myth, I do believe that it hurt me more than it hurt him. The good
news is that it worked and I was able to move on to the second grade.
Second
grade: “When you start something, you finish it”. Grade school can become such
a drag. This is especially true when you have big plans and the drudgery of day
to day work on things like the alphabet, addition, subtraction and who know what
else gets in the way. The day came in March that I had taken all that I could,
so I told all of my friends that I would be going home at noon for lunch and
that I wouldn’t be back. Good luck, so long, farewell and some foreign phase
that never made much sense. Lunch at our house was a production. My mother would
prepare a three-course All-American meal that included meat, potatoes and a
vegetable of some kind. Likewise, she would have prepared a dessert. Dad would drive
home for lunch and Linda and I would walk home from school. I can count on both
hands the number of times that I ate at the school cafeteria. Strangely enough
I looked at that as a treat but my classmates who dined there everyday would
disagree. Back to the story. Halfway through the meal I announced that today
was my final day at school. My mother promptly said that it wasn’t. This went
back and forth a few times until Dad failed to see the humor and simply
announced that we didn’t quit things, we finished them. Swallowing hard I could
see that I was defeated but now I had to figure out something to say to my
classmates when I got back to school. Of course, telling the truth would have
been the correct course but it is so much easier to create a believable but
unconfirmable lie. So by the time we went back to class, everybody in my circle
of friends felt really sorry for my poor mother who had broken down in tears
over the possibility that my life would go down the drain like an uncle who had
not finished the second grade.
Third grade: “When you know something it may be best
not to be a public-address system”. This was the final year of the lower
section of grade school. We were the lords of our section of the playground and
sacks of marbles measured our wealth. Once in awhile we would have homework but
generally everything was accomplished within the regular school day. We had an
arithmetic workbook and one day we were told to take the workbook home and
complete an assignment for the next day. After supper that evening I felt
rather grown up because I had homework just like my 6th grader
sister. After I finished the task I started looking at the workbook in greater
detail only to discover that in the back of the book were sample tests that the
students could take. There were two problems with that discovery. First, in
addition to the tests there was an answer section and second, when I examined
the sample tests they looked exactly like the tests we had been given in class.
Looking back, I know that the correct thing to do would have included going to
the teacher and pointing out my accidental discovery. However, I am a sinner
and if you aren’t, cast the first stone. I couldn’t wait to get to school to
share my wonderful discovery with EVERYONE in the entire class. Needless to
say, the chicken came home to roost. On the next arithmetic test almost every
person scored a 100. You could tell something was wrong when we came into the
classroom the next morning. The teacher looked so ticked off. The first thing
she wanted to know was how could all of her students could do so well on a test?
I could have answered that, but I opted to keep my mouth shut. However, one of
my classmates was quick to point out that Tommy had shown her the answers in
the back of the workbook and that she felt really bad about it. My, my how the
tide can turn. Just 24 hours ago she had told me that I was a hero. Well the
wrath of the teacher soon followed. She went by every desk in the room and tore
out the sample tests and answer sheets. She threw out the results of the test
from the previous day and made us take another test. Since it was handwritten I
can only assume that the hand of an angered woman wrote it. Even though things
remained tense for a period, it did smooth out as we worked to move on to the 4th
grade. I think the incident helped me formulate my opinion about entrapment.
Friday, March 2, 2018
Dad – The Early Years
My
Dad, Frank Sharp, was not an ordinary man in fact I know that I am safe to
describe him as a man for all seasons. He was born almost 110 years ago in
Independence, Kansas to a couple who would be known as Grandpa and Grandma
Sharp. He had three brothers John, Victor and Vernon. Vernon passed at an early
age due to an enlarged spleen. Listening to Dad talk about the loss of his
brother, I know this influenced some of his life decisions. After Vernon’s
passing the family moved from Independence to a home site in Apache Valley just
north of Clayton, New Mexico and on the south side of the Rabbit Ear Mountains.
Initially the family lived in a dug out, but actual structures were soon constructed.
Decades later Dad would stand at the crest of the mesa on the Clayton Lake road
and look at the valley and mountains. Lost in his own world, he could have been
riding the pure white horses through the tall grass or watching in wonder as
his father negotiated the path to the house in their Model T. Grandpa Sharp or
Ralph C. Sharp never mastered the braking system on the Model T so they had put
a log in the barn, so the car could coast in and let Mother Nature stop it. He supported
the family with his real estate business that extended from New Mexico down
into Texas. Vowing “Good Dirt, Dirt Cheap”, I remember Dad pointing out various
properties that his father had been involved in when we would travel from
Clayton to Amarillo, Texas.
He
loved to play tennis. Through years of practice, he developed a serve that was
almost impossible to return. Likewise, his defense strategy concentrated on
control of the ball. Everything was a lesson for him to convey. When I would
play him, he would emphasize that if you could control the ball, you could control
the game. It could have been a lecture in Machiavellian political philosophy.
He would never let me win but in the few times that I did, the praise lasted a
lifetime.
He
was ethical to a fault. I think he had an inner gauge of right and wrong. He
would sacrifice for both what he believed was the right thing to do and to
correct the littlest wrong. His word was his bond. The greatest example that I
can think of was the fact that his mother was completely anti-alcohol and she
pleaded with each of her three sons to sign a temperance pledge in the family
Bible. Two signed and my father refused simply because he didn’t feel that he
could absolutely honor that pledge. As it turned out, my two uncles did have
problems with alcohol, my Dad did not.
He
graduated from Clayton High School and headed to Norman, Oklahoma where he
enrolled in the School of Medicine and joined the OU football team. The future seemed
bright, but the forces of nature would re-chart the best laid plans. Due to the
depression and the Dust Bowl, the money promised for tuition dried up and Dad
was forced to return home. One day the pure white horses died in a dust storm
and their blackened carcasses were buried near the home site. Soon the family
moved into a house in Clayton that was furnished with projects that Dad built
in high school. Grandpa Sharp’s real estate business continued, and Dad found
work through the WPA that included sidewalks and the Clayton High School
complex.
In
the late thirties two major events occurred. Dad leased a gas station on Main
Street and met a charming waitress at the NuWay Café. Ada Bell had moved into
Clayton at the age of 16 from Sofia, NM. She worked at the café to support
herself while she pursued her high school diploma. Upon graduation she continued
working there as a waitress. I can only assume that his charm and wit impressed
her because they were married on November 11th of 1939 when he was 31
and she was 22. They worked together in their business until the day that
changed the world forever, December 7, 1941.
Monday, February 12, 2018
A LOVE STORY
You could
tell there was power, just by looking. His stance was solid and when he moved
those around him deferred often in awkward clumsiness. On cold mornings, you
could see the steam bellowing from his nostrils as he shook his massive head from
side to side. Yet with the power, you could feel the loneliness that
accompanied his position in the community. No one dared to talk directly to
him. Eye contact was never made. Opposition did not exist even though
challenges did humor him from time to time. This was his kingdom, his realm.
Even his owner walked with caution around Elmer. There was an understanding of
position. Hours were spent alone at the top of his hill. Elmer was a bull’s
bull.
Social ranks
had been established within the community. First, of course, was Elmer followed
in descending order by the eldest male dog, then the cattle, the sheep, the
goats, the rest of the dogs, the cats, the chickens, the field mice, two
transient hawks, a duck, the pigs and at the bottom, the farm frog, Irene.
Irene, like
other frogs, had begun her life as a little tadpole. Since she was not really
noticeable, Irene demonstrated her shyness by not demonstrating her presence.
In fact, there were members of the farm family that did not know that she even
existed. For all practicable matters, many felt that the pigs were the lowest
form of life and that was that. Consequently, Irene passed many a long day idly
sitting on a Lilly pad in the middle of the farm pond. The cattle would come to
get a drink and would never acknowledge her.
Fortunately, however, Irene did have
one friend, the duck. Known as Quacker III. How they came up with Quacker III
is anyone’s mystery. As far as anyone knew, Quacker III was the first and only
duck that had ever graced this farm. Likewise, since there weren’t any other
ducks around, it was doubtful that there would ever be a Quacker IV. Quacker
III had met Irene by accident one spring day while out for his morning swim.
Lost in his thoughts Quacker III failed to notice Irene on the Lilly pad and
the collision caused quite a commotion. Irene was dumped into the water as
Quacker III proceeded to entangle himself in the undergrowth. It was not until
Irene dove deep into the pond waters to untie the roots from Quacker III’s feet
that Quacker III was able to make his way to the shore. From that day forward
the two of them could be found at the pond often discussing their world affairs
and the personalities that made up their known environment.
Both of them questioned the positions that
the two transient hawks held. After all they were no better than the other
itinerant farm workers that came and went as the seasons passed. The most
disturbing thing about the situation was that it was obvious that they were
with egg and that could only mean more beaks to feed, fewer worms to till the
soil and the noise day and night. Further, the unspoken fear was when you
looked at the mom and dad you knew that these babies would break the “all
babies are cute” rule.
Both Irene and Quacker III had had a
run in with Billie the Goat. Sadly, Billie was almost blind and had to be
helped around the farm normally by one of the dogs. But typical of his stubborn
nature Billie would attempt to make it around on his own. As long as he would
stay within his area, everything was fine. However, last week on one of his
excursions Billie inadvertently ran into Quacker III. You can well imagine the
response. Quacker III quacked, Billie started jumping around and Irene ended up
between Billie’s hoof and the ground. The entire farmyard came alive. The dogs
circled around Billie who could only tell who they were by their bark. The
sheep in turn, came to Billie’s defense because of their closeness in nature
and the fact that they remembered that years ago Billie had eaten all the tin
cans in the sheep pin. The importance of that matter is that Elmer had told the
sheep to either clean up their pin or decide which one of them would be forced
to sing “Baa Baa Black Sheep” in front of the entire farm family. Since the
sheep were known for their consistent monotone all of them knew that they would
rather spend the night being counted by the owner than face the embarrassment
of a solo concert. It looked like the
situation was at a stalemate but then Quacker III let out the loudest quack
that had ever been heard in the farm. This caused Billie to jump and Irene was
freed from under his hoof. Irene quickly hopped to Quacker III’s side. It was
at this time that they all heard the distinctive and reverberating steps of
Elmer as he descended from his hill. Everyone knew that trouble was on it’s way
and they could only think of those days when what seemed innocent to them had
somehow irked Elmer to the point of calling a Farm Council. A Farm Council was
kind of like a criminal trail where you had to prove that you were innocent
rather than the other way around. Irene had moved behind Quacker III’s web feet
and started to weep real frog tears.
As Elmer entered the farm yard you
could hear a pin drop. Except for Irene’s tiny sobs there was stone cold
silence. Even the field mice had curtailed their usual mouse blabber. Although he never said it, everyone knew just
by his look that Elmer wanted to know the cause of all the ruckus and how it
would come to an end. Since Quacker III played a major role in attracting
Elmer’s attention all eyes moved to the duck. The intent, of course, was to
direct Elmer’s cold stare away from them personally. So while Quacker III
wasn’t a goose, the farm animals wanted his goose cooked rather than theirs.
Elmer, of course, was used to this tactic and slowly walked through the grounds
making direct eye contact with each of the animals. In the past this approach
would reduce any defense a culprit might have, and the truth would flow out of
their mouths like a river. Initially Elmer looked toward the transient hawks.
Since they were the most recent arrivals they were naturally suspected of
upsetting the domestic tranquility that normally prevailed. The two hawks held
each other in a fear only known to other fowl and the husband had gently placed
one of his wings over his wife’s belly who by this time was swollen with what
might be a double yolk. Elmer could see that they had nothing to hide so he
moved on to the dogs. The dogs of the farm came in a variety that could only be
matched by an upper end pet store. It goes without saying that the eldest dog
received an automatic pass but the preforming, seeing eye, and rescue dogs all were
subjected to Elmer’s review. Not seeing any unusual movements among the dogs,
he passed by them and the cats were cleared simply because they were standing
next to the dogs without any appearance of hostility. Sadly because of limited
attention span, the chickens, cattle, pigs, and the field mice had already
resumed to their usual activities. Elmer had never really suspected any of them
but an appearance of reverence, even for a short period, was good for law and
order within the farm structure. Since Billie was basically one of the victims
in the farm chaos, Elmer simply walked over to Billie and their noses touched
in a sign of mutual respect. In Elmer’s mind this left only one viable suspect,
the duck, Quacker III.
Frankly Quacker III could see the
writing on the barn wall. He had been disturbed since childhood with visions of
his demise. They ranged from being shipped to Peking to simply having the heebeegeebees
squeezed out of him and being served as Cold Duck. As Elmer approached Quacker
III felt that he had to say goodbye to Irene before the hoof came down. He
stepped away from Irene, wiped the little frog tears with his wing from her
green cheeks and just as he started to speak he could hear a distinctive bull
gasp. Quacker III quickly looked at Elmer who appeared not only frozen but
completely star struck. In Elmer’s mind the thoughts were running amuck. He had
never seen such dazzling brown eyes coupled with the most symmetrical legs he
had ever perceived. He knew all of this was simply crazy because things like
this never happened. His owner had introduced him to many potential mates but
after one date the farm gate was always shut. On top of everything else, this
was a frog. But since love is never logical Elmer found himself conversing with
Irene and even though there was an obvious language difference they understood
each other completely. Irene was equally smitten. She automatically turned on
that hidden frog charm and started hopping between Elmer’s hoofs, but it was
only to tease Elmer.
Quacker III was completely confused.
Only minutes ago, he was having thoughts of seeing all of his relatives who had
flown to the pond in the sky but now his best friend and the ruler of the farm
were playing like baby goats in the park. Fortunately, Elmer and Irene
maintained enough sense to realize that their meeting and relationship would
have never happened if it hadn’t been for Quacker III’s resounding quack.
Turning to Quacker III they, in their unique ways, ask him to join them in a
march around the farm to announce the inconceivable new order in this farm’s
affairs. Sitting proudly between Elmer’s massive horns and with Quacker III
waddling proudly by their side, Irene greeted the farm animals with the style
and dignity of the finest royalty the world had ever seen.
From that day forward Elmer was a new
bull. Each of the animals could freely approach him and every day he would
spend at least an hour at the pond while Irene sunbathed. Irene was no longer
shy and would happily serve as hostess for all of the official farmyard
functions. Likewise, Quacker III replaced the eldest male dog as Elmer’s
closest confidant and adviser. In all the valley one could not find a more
peaceful farm. It was united in understanding, forgiveness and a true testament
that love at first sight is true and real.
Thursday, February 1, 2018
The Backyard
When I look
back at my childhood I realize that to a certain degree my parents had, through
hard work and frugal management provided me and my sister with the American
dream of a childhood home. Dad had constructed, literally from scratch, a playground
that was the envy of the neighborhood. It included a self-propelled
merry-go-round, swings, a glider, a slide and a teeter todder. The trees were
large enough to build tree houses in and my sister had a bona fide play kitchen
at the back of the yard. It was attached to an apartment Dad had constructed
for my Grandmother on my Mother’s side. Likewise, an old tractor tire served
not only as a sand box, but the neighborhood cats properly relieved themselves
there. For that reason, we would rake the sand box to eliminate the more solid
waste but after that the germs had a field day. For some reason my mother would
always “encourage” a bath when we came in from backyard. They had a concrete
slab poured that was large enough to create a small basketball court that later
would double as a dance floor for parties.
Surrounding the yard and the exterior of the fence my mother maintained
a variety of flowers that would often grace the dining room table during the
spring, summer and early fall months. Always thinking of the most efficient way
to do things, Dad created concrete barriers around every flower bed. This
accomplished two things. First, it allowed one to water the entire flower bed
without the need to continuously move the water and second, I was able to mow
the lawn with virtually no need to trim the grass. The yard was encased by a
white metal picket fence. The fence was so strong that it literally stopped a
line drive that I hit during a backyard baseball game. Later, Dad had to pry it
out because the ball was lodged halfway between two of the pickets.
After my
Grandmother passed away when I was 6 years old, my parents decided to rent the
apartment. The tenants ranged from a woman who was recovering from a nervous
breakdown to a high school coach to a rancher’s twin daughters who lived there
for their senior year. I think the twins were my favorite tenants simply because
they would come out and toss oranges back and forth between the three of us so
that we could make orange juice. When the oranges were perfect we would get “juiced”
in the backyard.
Saturday, January 13, 2018
Early Entertainment
It was a
different time in America .
We actually had sidewalks that served the art of walking, wagon dragging,
bicycle and tricycle riding. The
sidewalks had been there for years and were often uneven from the overgrowth of
roots from the Chinese Elms that lined the streets of the small town that
served as my introduction to this world. Saturday mornings were usually spent
at my maternal grandmother’s apartment that my Dad had built on the back of our
property. We would watch Roy Rogers, Dale Evans, The Lone Ranger and any other
westerns that could be received by antenna from the televisions stations that
were one hundred thirty-five miles away. Of course, the shows were in black, white
and snow but with my trained eye I could imagine myself taking part in the
taming of the Wild West. That segment of my life ended when my Grandmother
passed when I was 6 years old. Since we didn’t have a TV we would, on occasion,
go over to a family friend’s house to watch Disney’s Wonderful World of Color
on Sunday night.
From that time
on the early Saturday mornings where spent by the radio listening to a variety
of children’s radio programs. There were usually biblically based, and they
came from faraway places like Kalamazoo, Michigan and Chicago, Illinois.
Another standard was the Wednesday night Salvation Army Hour that lasted thirty
minutes. I ask my Dad why they called it an hour and he explained the meaning
of “poetic license”. After lunch my sister and I would walk to the library to
pick up the next week’s supply of reading materials. Linda was kind of a book
worm who would even read under the blankets with a flashlight late into the
nights. Generally, my interests included history, biographies, and political
novels. These were left to read until the sun had set because during the
daylight I was constantly building and rebuilding project after project. My Dad
had given me all of the wood that he had used for concrete forms and a can of used
nails. Initially I had to straighten out the nails from the last project and
then I would draw the plans in my Big Chief tablet and then proceed to build a
variety of things that ranged from boxes to gallows complete with a trap door in
memory of Black Jack Ketchum. For some reason my Mother didn’t appreciate the
gallows. During the winter months more, time was spent reading or practicing
the art of marble playing.
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