The backyard
taught me the principle of barter economics. I was introduced to this concept
when I was around six years old. Dad did not like to fish but he loved to eat them.
At the same time, he knew fishermen who loved to go out to Clayton Lake and
spend the day catching their limit, but they didn’t like to clean nor eat their
catch. To these fishermen the belief was that the best bait was earthworms and
unless you had a worm source, they were a pain to get. That is, of course,
where the Sharp Worm Farm came into play. Dad built a box complete with a retractable
lid. He filled it halfway with very fertile loose soil and some seed worms. My
job was to take the coffee grounds out there each morning to help the composting
process along. As it turns out, worms are better than rabbits when it comes to
reproduction. Since there are no male or female worms they can mate with just
any worm who happens to be crawling by. It didn’t take long for the word to spread
that we had worms that we would trade for fish. Consequently, our freezer was
full of trout and catfish and our worms had a happy home for at least awhile. Fortunately
for me, Dad cleaned all the fish. Soon the production of the worms exceeded the
trading volume, so I would put worms in pint paper containers and take them to
Isaacs Hardware Store that would sell them on consignment. This put some extra
change in the pocket and sparked my love of the world of business.
By the time I was ten I felt a tremendous need to
expand my business interests. Since the high school was only a block away from our
home, all of the school owned ground around the high school was within walking
distance of our house. To keep the growth down, the school would hire someone
to come in a few times in the summer to basically mow the vacant lots with a
tractor pulled mower. Frankly, it didn’t look much better after the mowing
simply because of the method used. Seeing the need for a better way, I finally
convinced my father to get me an appointment with the Superintendent of the schools,
so I could offer my services. In early May of 1960 at the age of ten I met with
Don R. Wood and we reached an agreement that I would mow the high school vacant
lots twice a month during the summer months in exchange for $70 per month. In
today’s dollars that would amount to over $550 per month. I went down to Isaacs
Hardware and they agreed to finance a lawn mower to be paid for over the
summer. This arrangement with the school continued until I was old enough to
get a driver’s license. Since the school work took approximately one week to
complete, I was able to mow several little old lady’s lawns during the off
weeks. Did all work and no play make Tommy a dull boy? I think not!
Monday, March 26, 2018
Monday, March 19, 2018
Moving on up to the North Building for more Life Lessons
Fourth
grade: “I am free at last!” My sister has moved on to Junior High so I can walk
uphill to school without her feeling obligated to tell me how to do it! Likewise,
I will have to be completely responsible for my coat, gloves and galoshes. For
my friends in the latest generation, galoshes were rubber boats that you put
over your shoes so that you could walk through blizzard like weather conditions
and we liked it. Of course, the lessons of life continued to unfold. One lesson
is that you can make anything scary if you give your mind enough freedom. After
leaving the house in the morning I would cut over to Oak street so that I could
avoid walking through the high school grounds. About four blocks from my house
was what we referred to as the Peyton mansion. While the style of the home was
unique within itself, the original owners had molded concrete into what
appeared to be petrified wood that was intertwined around the property. On the
top floor of the property one could see what looked like a look out post. Stories
would swirl and magnify themselves about the mansion. My pace would always
quicken when I passed the property. Once I made it to the school grounds spirits
were usually high and in the fourth grade the deeper matters of world affairs were
left to the outside word. We were very honored to have a member of our class
who was without a doubt the fastest runner in the world. I will save her the embarrassment,
but she could run faster than a BB. I know for a fact that she did allow
herself to slow down because years later she permitted a boy with a fast
Mustang to catch her and I double dated with them on one of my rare dates in
high school. For the most part as 4th graders we had moved away from
the big slide and merry go round but on occasion we would lose ourselves on the
swings as we soared to greater heights and then bailing out to return to earth.
The big event that still weighs on my mind from that period of time was the
fact that I made a B in spelling. I really thought I had it down. You know, i before
e except after c and the other rules that had been formulated over the
centuries of literary composition. To others my grade would be a blessing but,
in my mind, it created a lifetime of doubt and the need for auto correct.
Fifth
grade: “All Politics is Local”. These were confusing times for a ten-year-old.
Earlier in 1960, a U2 spy plane had been shot down over Russia and tensions
between the two great powers grew each day. As kids we would hear estimates of
how many times the world could be destroyed during an attack by the Soviet
Union. While it was impossible to imagine the devastation of that type of war,
awareness of the danger was brought to small town America. Dad was the Civil
Defense Director for Clayton and he conducted surveys of buildings in the area
to try to determine the best possible shelters for the community. Strangely
enough our house, due to the two-foot-thick adobe walls and it’s lead roof, was
deemed one of the safest places in the area. Since the likelihood of a direct
attack was remote, the presence of the weather station at the airport gave Dad
a way to calculate time windows for potential fallout. Yes, we did talk about
things like this and my imagination contributed to my concern.
In
other ways 1960 was a pivotal year for me. This was the first Presidential
election that I really remember. Vice President Nixon was running as the
Republican nominee and Senator Kennedy represented the Democrats. Politics had always
been a part of our family life. We were Democrats and it was not unusual to
attend a party pot luck supper at the airport. The candidates from all across
the state would descend on Clayton and rub elbows with the locals. Dad always
told us that he had only voted a straight party ticket one time in his life and
that was in 1932. Otherwise, he tried to vote for the candidate rather than the
party. Just as in the nation the Presidential race was extremely close in New
Mexico. While Union and Bernalillo (Albuquerque) Counties went to Nixon, the
state was won by Kennedy. I learned several valuable political lessons that
year. First, if you want to know how the parents feel about a candidate, ask
their children. The children will parrot almost word for word what they heard
at home. Second, political opinions are rarely based on real issues but rather
on emotions. To demonstrate this point, I remember several fights broke out on
the playground over who would win the election. Third, a stump speech from one
candidate sounds a lot like a stump speech from another. Fourth, in a primary you
can say just about anything you want about the opposition but when the primary
is over you become the best of friends. For example, one day I could accuse you
of being a cannibal but at the end of the week and after I had won, we would
both agree that you were really just eating your hat.
Sixth
grade: “Words are more powerful than swords”. In the sixth grade I actually had
a teacher who was not a woman. That certainly thru charm and flattery out the
window. After being one step behind the Soviet Union in the space race the United
States successfully sent Alan Shephard into space. This just fueled my infatuation
with rockets. Initially I sent compressed air missiles into the sky followed by
solid fuel Estes rockets and then I built my own using vinegar and baking soda
to create the thrust necessary to leave the confines of this earthly plane. Meanwhile
back in school I was presented with a tremendous learning lesson. It was the
policy in our classroom, that if you made less than a 60 on any exam you were
punished with a pop from a ruler for every point less than the minimum
acceptable grade. God had blessed me with the ability to stay above that mark
but we had one kid in our class who just couldn’t make it. Consequently, after every
exam you knew what was going to happen next. This really bothered me to the
point that I felt a need to take a stand against what I considered an
injustice. For several days I worked on a speech that outlined my position. I
did not tell the teacher the reason nor the subject, but I asked if I could
make a speech to the class. He said that I could have the floor that afternoon.
Needless to say, I was a bundle of nerves by the time the afternoon rolled
around. It was a rather short speech, but I stated that I felt that any punishment
for a bad grade was simply wrong and that should never be used as a measure of
a persons worth. I acknowledged that it certainly wasn’t my decision whether
the practice continued but that if the teacher felt a need to pop someone for a
bad grade that I would offer my posterior as a substitute. The speech was over,
and you could have heard a pin drop. After what seemed like an eternity the
class resumed. At the end of the day the teacher asked me to stay. I really
didn’t know what was going to happen, but he was quick and to the point. He
said that he had really thought about what I had said and that he believed that
I was right. The practice stopped, and I believe it marked a turning point in
my life. I learned that the power of words can be astronomical, and that admitting
fault can end up being a virtue. My respect for my 6th grade teacher
continues today.
Friday, March 9, 2018
Life Lessons from Lower Grade School
Perhaps
the first but not the most important lesson that I learned in grade school was
that each teacher had one of three first names: Mr., Mrs., or Miss. Mr. was easy
enough but the other two could be a little confusing. The most important lesson
was that my sister was going to be a hard act to follow. To provide a sense of
order in this epistle, I will break the lessons down by the grade at Central
Ward School.
First
Grade: “Never day dream when you are taking a test”. Early on in the year our
teacher gave us a test that contained two parts. The test was easy enough and I
quickly went through the first section. Suddenly my mind took me outside to get
on the worlds tallest slide and begin the exciting ride down as you could hear
the metal in the slide moan and groan as you traveled with increasing speed
towards earth. Needless to say, the time for the test was up before I finished
my own recess. Since we lived in a small town where everybody knew everybody my
teacher called my mother and said that this was performance was so unlike Tommy’s
usual work but since she felt so bad about giving me a F perhaps I could retake
the test during the next recess. That seemed more than reasonable to me so the
next day I stayed in during the recess period ready to take the exam. This time
to ensure that I completed the test, I started with the second part first. Unfortunately,
our classroom had big windows that looked out on the playground and I could see
all of my friends having a wonderful time. Again, my mind played tricks on me
and as soon as the recess was over the teacher collected my test before I had a
chance to finish. This time she called my Dad at the power plant where he was
the City Engineer. The recess retake was again offered but she said that she
hoped that Dad would find some way for Tommy to keep his mind focused. Since
Dad always felt a need to explain why he was going to spank me, the speech was
rather short this time when he told me to never day dream when taking a test. Contrary
to a popular myth, I do believe that it hurt me more than it hurt him. The good
news is that it worked and I was able to move on to the second grade.
Second
grade: “When you start something, you finish it”. Grade school can become such
a drag. This is especially true when you have big plans and the drudgery of day
to day work on things like the alphabet, addition, subtraction and who know what
else gets in the way. The day came in March that I had taken all that I could,
so I told all of my friends that I would be going home at noon for lunch and
that I wouldn’t be back. Good luck, so long, farewell and some foreign phase
that never made much sense. Lunch at our house was a production. My mother would
prepare a three-course All-American meal that included meat, potatoes and a
vegetable of some kind. Likewise, she would have prepared a dessert. Dad would drive
home for lunch and Linda and I would walk home from school. I can count on both
hands the number of times that I ate at the school cafeteria. Strangely enough
I looked at that as a treat but my classmates who dined there everyday would
disagree. Back to the story. Halfway through the meal I announced that today
was my final day at school. My mother promptly said that it wasn’t. This went
back and forth a few times until Dad failed to see the humor and simply
announced that we didn’t quit things, we finished them. Swallowing hard I could
see that I was defeated but now I had to figure out something to say to my
classmates when I got back to school. Of course, telling the truth would have
been the correct course but it is so much easier to create a believable but
unconfirmable lie. So by the time we went back to class, everybody in my circle
of friends felt really sorry for my poor mother who had broken down in tears
over the possibility that my life would go down the drain like an uncle who had
not finished the second grade.
Third grade: “When you know something it may be best
not to be a public-address system”. This was the final year of the lower
section of grade school. We were the lords of our section of the playground and
sacks of marbles measured our wealth. Once in awhile we would have homework but
generally everything was accomplished within the regular school day. We had an
arithmetic workbook and one day we were told to take the workbook home and
complete an assignment for the next day. After supper that evening I felt
rather grown up because I had homework just like my 6th grader
sister. After I finished the task I started looking at the workbook in greater
detail only to discover that in the back of the book were sample tests that the
students could take. There were two problems with that discovery. First, in
addition to the tests there was an answer section and second, when I examined
the sample tests they looked exactly like the tests we had been given in class.
Looking back, I know that the correct thing to do would have included going to
the teacher and pointing out my accidental discovery. However, I am a sinner
and if you aren’t, cast the first stone. I couldn’t wait to get to school to
share my wonderful discovery with EVERYONE in the entire class. Needless to
say, the chicken came home to roost. On the next arithmetic test almost every
person scored a 100. You could tell something was wrong when we came into the
classroom the next morning. The teacher looked so ticked off. The first thing
she wanted to know was how could all of her students could do so well on a test?
I could have answered that, but I opted to keep my mouth shut. However, one of
my classmates was quick to point out that Tommy had shown her the answers in
the back of the workbook and that she felt really bad about it. My, my how the
tide can turn. Just 24 hours ago she had told me that I was a hero. Well the
wrath of the teacher soon followed. She went by every desk in the room and tore
out the sample tests and answer sheets. She threw out the results of the test
from the previous day and made us take another test. Since it was handwritten I
can only assume that the hand of an angered woman wrote it. Even though things
remained tense for a period, it did smooth out as we worked to move on to the 4th
grade. I think the incident helped me formulate my opinion about entrapment.
Friday, March 2, 2018
Dad – The Early Years
My
Dad, Frank Sharp, was not an ordinary man in fact I know that I am safe to
describe him as a man for all seasons. He was born almost 110 years ago in
Independence, Kansas to a couple who would be known as Grandpa and Grandma
Sharp. He had three brothers John, Victor and Vernon. Vernon passed at an early
age due to an enlarged spleen. Listening to Dad talk about the loss of his
brother, I know this influenced some of his life decisions. After Vernon’s
passing the family moved from Independence to a home site in Apache Valley just
north of Clayton, New Mexico and on the south side of the Rabbit Ear Mountains.
Initially the family lived in a dug out, but actual structures were soon constructed.
Decades later Dad would stand at the crest of the mesa on the Clayton Lake road
and look at the valley and mountains. Lost in his own world, he could have been
riding the pure white horses through the tall grass or watching in wonder as
his father negotiated the path to the house in their Model T. Grandpa Sharp or
Ralph C. Sharp never mastered the braking system on the Model T so they had put
a log in the barn, so the car could coast in and let Mother Nature stop it. He supported
the family with his real estate business that extended from New Mexico down
into Texas. Vowing “Good Dirt, Dirt Cheap”, I remember Dad pointing out various
properties that his father had been involved in when we would travel from
Clayton to Amarillo, Texas.
He
loved to play tennis. Through years of practice, he developed a serve that was
almost impossible to return. Likewise, his defense strategy concentrated on
control of the ball. Everything was a lesson for him to convey. When I would
play him, he would emphasize that if you could control the ball, you could control
the game. It could have been a lecture in Machiavellian political philosophy.
He would never let me win but in the few times that I did, the praise lasted a
lifetime.
He
was ethical to a fault. I think he had an inner gauge of right and wrong. He
would sacrifice for both what he believed was the right thing to do and to
correct the littlest wrong. His word was his bond. The greatest example that I
can think of was the fact that his mother was completely anti-alcohol and she
pleaded with each of her three sons to sign a temperance pledge in the family
Bible. Two signed and my father refused simply because he didn’t feel that he
could absolutely honor that pledge. As it turned out, my two uncles did have
problems with alcohol, my Dad did not.
He
graduated from Clayton High School and headed to Norman, Oklahoma where he
enrolled in the School of Medicine and joined the OU football team. The future seemed
bright, but the forces of nature would re-chart the best laid plans. Due to the
depression and the Dust Bowl, the money promised for tuition dried up and Dad
was forced to return home. One day the pure white horses died in a dust storm
and their blackened carcasses were buried near the home site. Soon the family
moved into a house in Clayton that was furnished with projects that Dad built
in high school. Grandpa Sharp’s real estate business continued, and Dad found
work through the WPA that included sidewalks and the Clayton High School
complex.
In
the late thirties two major events occurred. Dad leased a gas station on Main
Street and met a charming waitress at the NuWay Café. Ada Bell had moved into
Clayton at the age of 16 from Sofia, NM. She worked at the café to support
herself while she pursued her high school diploma. Upon graduation she continued
working there as a waitress. I can only assume that his charm and wit impressed
her because they were married on November 11th of 1939 when he was 31
and she was 22. They worked together in their business until the day that
changed the world forever, December 7, 1941.
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